Two words: parking space.
Oh my goodness, I had an epiphany today in the parking lot of the pool I do aquatic therapy in. I realized that parking spaces are a terrific way for me to put others before myself. It sounds ridiculous, but next time you see that sweet, juicy, right next to the door spot, drive right on by, and park 100 yards away from the door.
It's hard to do. I really had to adjust my attitude as a white SUV zoomed into the spot that I was about to pull in to. Especially when you have two dweeby crutches, and don't want to have to mess with the shenanigans of having to crutchstepcrutchstep to the back row of the parking lot. I mean, I'm pretty sure it was a red Skittle that almost took me out. The place was packed.
But you know what? It was a teachable moment for me. It truly was a sacrifice, as stupid as that sounds. Why is it so difficult for me to think of others before I think of my own benefit? It's unnatural in our broken world. That's why. Because, man, there are so many ways that we can demonstrate love to others using something as simple as a parking space. Holding the door for someone. Bringing a meal to someone's house. Not having to have the last word in the argument. Driving considerately. Smiling. Being the first to say "hello", and stopping to listen when you ask, "how are you doing?" I could go on and on with seemingly menial things in our everyday lives. But those tiny things make all the difference in the world.
Thank you, Lord, for lost parking spots.
"Each of us should please our neighbors for their good, to build them up. For even Christ did not please himself... For everything that was written in the past was written to teach us, so that through the endurance taught in the Scriptures and the encouragement they provide we might have hope.
May the God who gives endurance and encouragement give you the same attitude of mind toward each other that Christ Jesus had, so that with one mind and one voice you may glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ." -Romans 15:2-6
This is so great! Thanks for posting! This made me think of the video we saw at your church when Emily and I stayed with you for Katy's wedding. It was about a man who kept going to church, "improving" himself every week to fit in. Do you remember that? I searched the web for it and can't find it. Do you know where I can find it? It's such a great message. Thanks for sharing your experiences! :)
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